“Thomas was unsure what happened that day…but since than she hasn’t spoken a word. The night they went out on their last date he was excited to be taking her out. After all she was one of the most gorgeous girls in their neighborhood and everyone would see them! He couldn’t stop gazing into her beautiful eyes.
Thomas spent the entire date gazing at her. By the second hour she was ready to go and Thomas was pleading with her to stay…’I can’t believe that I was interested in going out with a square like you…if I wanted an admirer I would’ve taken my mirror!’ Stephanie stormed out the door and Thomas couldn’t believe that she left him there like that…After all he bought her candy, flowers, he drove and paid what more could she want?’ What Thomas didn’t know is that Stephanie wasn’t looking for any of that…so what was she looking for?”
Sound Familiar to you? Has this scenario played over and over in your head? Has it boggled you speechless? Unsure what to make of it? Well today we are going to help you get passed this hump. The truth of the matter is woman no matter how gorgeous they are want a man who is going to take charge and take some chances. They don’t want a dribbling idiot. This is where Thomas failed. His presence was merely annoying he was not the stud that Stephanie had hoped he would be. So how do you get from Dribbling idiot to Stud Muffin?
Below are a few tips to get you headed in the right direction:
Tip 1: Do not get hung up on one girl. If you anticipate the woman too long it will show in your behaviors. If you are interested in her….approach her.
Tip 2: Never make it a big deal. Doing this will also add to the situation. If you focus too much on the task at hand you are likely to make uncommon mistakes. This will only hinder your chances of getting the date…or ruining the date!
Tip 3: Be yourself. Don’t try to be something you are not. If she doesn’t like you for who you are there are plenty more where she came from. Pretending you are someone you are not will merely come out in the end making the situation worse…or losing your chance all together.
Tip 4: Listen to them. Woman are looking for someone who is genuinely interested in them. Want to make eye contact when that talk, and really hear what they are saying. This means participation in the conversation and the careful recollection of a fond memory form long ago. Not always what we want but helpful to all!
The way you convey yourself on the date is up to you. But to keep her at your side you must be yourself. Drooling over her all night is probably not going to help you score anything. Remember that understanding woman has been difficult for men throughout the ages. You will not get it overnight. Some won’t even get it within their life time but she is looking for a man not an admirer!
