Jul 20
Jessica stared intently at the man across the room. He was clean shaved; neatly dressed and reading quietly alone in the corner. Giggling at every glimpse he gave her. Whispering in the ears of her friends. The man continued to read his book without too much thought. Then is dawned on him that see was quite a site. Putting his newspaper down and taking a last sip from his coffee he approached her. She smiled at him with every step and leaned forward to hear what her girlfriends were muttering about. She couldn’t help starring at him. Her smile grew bigger as he approached their table. She offered him a chair as her cheeks brightly turned red.“I saw you across the room mind if I sit here?” the man asked ever so politely and Jessica melted in her chair. Tip: Keeping up your appearances, a clean shaved beard, a neatly pressed shirt, and a smooth hair style can do most of the work for you…even have the women drolling before you even get too their table…just ask Jessica!
Jul 20
Since so many of us NEED help making it through the first date. I have listed the top 10 mistakes and top ten ‘go for it’s’ of dating! If you are someone who rarely have dates but think you don’t need this you may want to pay extra special attention: Top 10 Thing to Do: 1. Open the door for the lady 2. Pay for the meal 3. Tell her you had a good time 4. Tell tasteful jokes 5. Give her compliments 6. Ask before touching [May I have a kiss] 7. keep eye contact 8. Listen to her stories [no matter how boring they seem] 9. Tell her you had a great time [ no matter how awful it may have turned out] 10. Take her home at a decent hour Top 10 Things to ‘NOT’ Do on your First Date: 1. Try to put your arm around her at the movies 2. Interrupt her in a conversation 3. Stare at other woman! 4. Laugh at her stories [When she's pouring her heart out] 5. Not pay for the Meal 6. Run out on the bill 7. Suggest running out on the bill 8. Constantly stare at your watch 9. Avoid looking at her 10. Try to ask her to come to your house [ because you forgot something-how lame]   Remember to keep her attention focused on you the entire date. Show her you are paying attention to her every step of the way. Give her lots of compliments. And most of all don’t force yourself on her…coming off too strong is a number one turn off.
Jul 18
Tasteful Appearances- Michael finished his book “The Arch” just before he walked out the door of his small studio apartment. The Boulevard was like always-packed and he couldn’t wait to see what girls were out today. He walked past the Barber shop waving to the old catz as though they hung out all the time… ”Did you see that?” the barber shop owner asked the customer getting his hair trimmed up “Yeah pathetic..” they shook their heads vigorously as the starred at the god awful ballooned out lime green pants and cream butterfly collar shirt Michael was sporting as he walked down the street. Tip: Remember your appearances effect not only what girls you get but how others in your community view you. If you are having trouble getting a girl it is wise to do a survey of not only your hair and confidence but your entire closet as well…I mean you wouldn’t want to end up like Mike!
Jul 17
” Jim walked up to her as she sat shaking her hair; sensually running her fingers through it. The blonde highlights shone in the sunlight as it beamed through the window of the quite coffee shop. It had taken Jim all day to get the nerve to walk up to her. He fixed his shirt mid-way to her chair. His hands were shaking a mile a minute. So was the pocket protector that lay neatly in his front pocket. He cleared his throat in a lame attempt to get her attention. She turned around–as he tapped her shoulder. “Excuse me miss do you happen to have the time?” she laughed in his face so hard her milk shake spattered in his mouth. The humilliation crushed him as he ran back to his chair” Tip: It is a wise decision not to use a worn out pick up line to speak with the woman of your dreams. A little originality would be best in these situations! Marinate on it–if it takes you all day–think hard about what  you say before it comes out of your mouth when dealing with a woman or you too could end up like “Jim”!
Jul 14
“The door opened to the cafe’. The girls were giggling in the corner talking over their last class. He walked in- she instantly smiled as he made is way around the tables…as their eyes met he gave her a glimpse with is piercing eyes and smiled back. She knew she had to met him, talk to him just once and she couldn’t stop smiling.” Have you seen him…the guy that gets all the smiles when he walks in the room? The one every girls is after? Have you thought about being like him? Longing for just a day when they would stare at you that very same way? Well we are going to give you the basics on turning all their heads. Image is very important to woman. If they can’t look at you– they will not talk to you. So what do you think of first when you see it ...
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Jul 14
WELCOME! To looking for a girl. The art of finding, approaching, and getting a positive response comes with wit and experience. However many of us don’t have the time to learn through experience. And many of us don’t have a high enough confidence level to continue to get experience. Quite simply getting blown off by the woman… sucks! So what do we do to get her to look at us, to chat with us, to get into us? This blog will give you ways to build your confidence, material to approach your dream girl, and stories good and bad of approaching their one night stand, their just because girl, and their future wives. You will learn and quickly move from the freaky geek to hunk of the week. Building confidence, gaining appearance, and maintaining good conversations are all keys to initiating conversation and landing the ladies. Learn the tips, tricks, and trade of the art right here. Stick around we have much more to come…