Jul 24
One of the most important parts of dating is appearance of course! However some of us still have issues in this department. No worries! I am here to show you how to do the hygiene thing right! A big part of how a woman sees you is—the appearance upon first sight. This image control is usually a quick glance looking over a few common areas. Most woman feel that they can tell how a guy is in his personal, and business life by the way he looks. As you don’t judge a book by its cover…I feel the same is true when it comes to picking us out. [But that is my opinion and of course you aren't trying to sell the idea to me!] The 4 most surveyed areas of the male body are; head[hair]; torso [shirt,etc.]; butt [back of you] and of course face. Sometimes they look at ...
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Jul 23
“Glenn knew that he couldn’t score a woman like that. Her beautiful curves and long flowing dark brown hair. She was out of his league. After all she hadn’t even noticed he was standing there. Like a fly on the wall, he could see it all. Her wet slippery body when she climbed out of the shower, her delicate lifting of her leg as she slid her panties on each day after class. The whole in the wall was growing old though he wanted to touch her body just once. But how would he get to touch her? How would he get her to notice him? To glance at him even once, his world is invisible to her. After all he couldn’t even get his head out of the clouds long enough to think of a way to get her to notice him. Then it hit him. He would try ...
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Jul 21
“Jessica knew that Chip had a major crush on him. She was so tired of his constant ogling. She couldn’t wait until the weekend. Her only break from his constantly beaming eyes. The work bell rang and see ran to punch out her time card. The stampede to the time clock was worse them a heard of Buffalo and somehow Chip manged to catch up –as always. Jessica needed a diversion to keep him off her at least until she got to her car. She crammed her way to the time clock to punch out and she caught him out of the corner of her eye. His smile made her sick…she couldn’t understand how someone could smile that much! She ran to the door –it slammed on Chip as he tried to follow her out—she faded in the distance as chip watched her run off!” The Tip- If a woman runs from you every time you come around- odds are she doesn’t want to be bothered with you…so stop following her! There are several fish in the sea. Don’t be stuck on just one of them unless the feeling is mutual. Too many stalking laws for that!
Jul 21
“Ben listened once again as Jasmine poured out her heart. She was always depressed and wasn’t happy in her relationship. Ben often thought of what he could say to her to make her see that she was worth more than that; but she continued to stay in the relationship. He seemed at his wits end such a beautiful woman. Her red hair blowing through the breeze; light little freckles sparkling on her face. Her smile lit up the room – though he rarely saw it these days. Ben wished he could make her smile. He wasn’t even sure how to approach her. He didn’t want to chase her off or offend her. He wasn’t sure what to do but he didn’t want to see her so sad—anymore.” Like Ben many of us get stuck in this situation. The ever honest, always there, friend! And we find it difficult to ...
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Jul 20
Jessica stared intently at the man across the room. He was clean shaved; neatly dressed and reading quietly alone in the corner. Giggling at every glimpse he gave her. Whispering in the ears of her friends. The man continued to read his book without too much thought. Then is dawned on him that see was quite a site. Putting his newspaper down and taking a last sip from his coffee he approached her. She smiled at him with every step and leaned forward to hear what her girlfriends were muttering about. She couldn’t help starring at him. Her smile grew bigger as he approached their table. She offered him a chair as her cheeks brightly turned red.“I saw you across the room mind if I sit here?” the man asked ever so politely and Jessica melted in her chair. Tip: Keeping up your appearances, a clean shaved beard, a neatly pressed shirt, and a smooth hair style can do most of the work for you…even have the women drolling before you even get too their table…just ask Jessica!
Jul 20
Since so many of us NEED help making it through the first date. I have listed the top 10 mistakes and top ten ‘go for it’s’ of dating! If you are someone who rarely have dates but think you don’t need this you may want to pay extra special attention: Top 10 Thing to Do: 1. Open the door for the lady 2. Pay for the meal 3. Tell her you had a good time 4. Tell tasteful jokes 5. Give her compliments 6. Ask before touching [May I have a kiss] 7. keep eye contact 8. Listen to her stories [no matter how boring they seem] 9. Tell her you had a great time [ no matter how awful it may have turned out] 10. Take her home at a decent hour Top 10 Things to ‘NOT’ Do on your First Date: 1. Try to put your arm around her at the movies 2. Interrupt her in a conversation 3. Stare at other woman! 4. Laugh at her stories [When she's pouring her heart out] 5. Not pay for the Meal 6. Run out on the bill 7. Suggest running out on the bill 8. Constantly stare at your watch 9. Avoid looking at her 10. Try to ask her to come to your house [ because you forgot something-how lame]   Remember to keep her attention focused on you the entire date. Show her you are paying attention to her every step of the way. Give her lots of compliments. And most of all don’t force yourself on her…coming off too strong is a number one turn off.
Jul 19
Rick walked into the plant after lunch; ketchup stain on the collar and mustard on his button to sit down for the meeting. The group looked around starring intently at him. He sat puzzled. Wondering what he was doing to amuse them so. The speaker walked in to give her presentation the room grew quite as she walked around the two chairs in the corner occupied by the business managers to the rounded table occupied by the employees of the small firm. She sat her brief case down and began to speak as rick stared in awe. What he wouldn’t give to have such an intelligent woman in his corner. When the meeting was over Rick approached her with eager eyes and after one glimpse of him she headed for the door. She smiled at him and interrupted stating “Sorry, I’m happily married.” and walked out of the room. Later Rick glimpsed down the hall and noticed her talking to Jeff the firm lap boy. What a blow to his ego. When he asked a co-worker why they thought she would speak to Jeff and not him? They simply replied “Why not- at least he knows how to put on a clean shirt”. Rick stood in disappointment and shock at what was just said. After all how did he know she would be here! Tip: No matter how small the mess or event; you should always remember to keep up your appearances. After all you simply never know who you will run into…just look at Rick.
Jul 19
One of the most important things that we must remember about clothing is it Must be clean! So many of us guys walk around with a stain here; a wrinkle there; and don’t think about the impressions we are leaving to people of the opposite sex! This is something woman look at. They know that if you don’t care about ourselves enough to wear clean clothes our houses or homes probably don’t look much better….and most of the time there right! I mean what self severing bachelor wants to spend his off time…Cleaning. Well the day has changed and many of the top ten sexiest woman don’t want to spend their off time cleaning up after a slob either. So how can we improve our appearance? Tip 1: Iron your clothes once a week: Instead of waiting until the last minute to iron. Pick a easy going day of the ...
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Jul 18
Tasteful Appearances- Michael finished his book “The Arch” just before he walked out the door of his small studio apartment. The Boulevard was like always-packed and he couldn’t wait to see what girls were out today. He walked past the Barber shop waving to the old catz as though they hung out all the time… ”Did you see that?” the barber shop owner asked the customer getting his hair trimmed up “Yeah pathetic..” they shook their heads vigorously as the starred at the god awful ballooned out lime green pants and cream butterfly collar shirt Michael was sporting as he walked down the street. Tip: Remember your appearances effect not only what girls you get but how others in your community view you. If you are having trouble getting a girl it is wise to do a survey of not only your hair and confidence but your entire closet as well…I mean you wouldn’t want to end up like Mike!
Jul 17
” Jim walked up to her as she sat shaking her hair; sensually running her fingers through it. The blonde highlights shone in the sunlight as it beamed through the window of the quite coffee shop. It had taken Jim all day to get the nerve to walk up to her. He fixed his shirt mid-way to her chair. His hands were shaking a mile a minute. So was the pocket protector that lay neatly in his front pocket. He cleared his throat in a lame attempt to get her attention. She turned around–as he tapped her shoulder. “Excuse me miss do you happen to have the time?” she laughed in his face so hard her milk shake spattered in his mouth. The humilliation crushed him as he ran back to his chair” Tip: It is a wise decision not to use a worn out pick up line to speak with the woman of your dreams. A little originality would be best in these situations! Marinate on it–if it takes you all day–think hard about what  you say before it comes out of your mouth when dealing with a woman or you too could end up like “Jim”!