“Ben sat at the bar and had the bartender fill his cup one last time. He was tired of looking for love and wanted to settle for just a one night stand. Anything to feel the affection of women. She approached the bar as he saw her from the corner of his eye. He turned…she was beautiful and he gave her a smile. Without a second thought he grabbed her hand. Leading her to the door. She put up no fight and followed him willingly outside.
He hailed the taxi and opened her door allowing her to get in. He wasn’t sure why he was doing this but seemed to enjoy the mystery of it all. They went to his apartment and he poured wine, the gentle rubs, and passionate kisses brought happiness to Ben’s life if even just one night. In the morning when he awoke she was gone, no note or goodbye…he didn’t even know her name.”
If you are going to have a one night stand there are a few ground rules to remember. Mostly understanding that it is a one night stand and both parties should be ok with that. Below are a few tips to ensure that you have a sensational night and that you remember its a one night stand.
Tip 1: Make sure you are ready for one nights stands: if you are a sensitive person this may not be right for you.
Tip 2: Enjoy yourself- Remember this is supposed to be fun and enjoyable. Don’t bombard each other with a bunch of questions. You will not be seeing her again it will take all the enjoyment and mystery out of the occasion.
Tip 3: Don’t Get their number: If this is a true one night stand don’t ask for their number you shouldn’t call them the next week, don’t give them yours. The purpose of the one night stand is its over after that night no ties, no needs, and for those who have had bad experiences—no issues!
In the end the decision is up to you. If you need a break from the norm and rejection is getting you down this is a good way to get your needs met without a smorgasboard of issues later. Learning to find that girl…the one for you can be emotional and stressful on you. A one night stand can often help you get through some of the stress of human need without getting tied up in a relationship. Remember to make your intentions known up front to avoid problems later!
Until next time!
