Aug 05
“John and Jackie were at the movies…the lights went down and tension rose. After all it was only their first date. John yawns…and yes…he made the lamest move in dating history! He attempted to lay his arm across Jackie’s shoulder. She turned an looked at him…‘Would you kindly take your hand off me?’ she stated. John lowered his arm in embarrassment. The car was quiet the whole way to the house. He wondered if he would ever see her again. He couldn’t believe he actually tried to pull it off. Not sure what to do he took a chance…laying his hand on her knee…with the fire in her eyes he realized he would have to look tomorrow for the next girl.” In the story- John was afraid to try at first but the second time around seemed much easier. When is a good time to try to put the
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Aug 01
“Thomas was unsure what happened that day…but since than she hasn’t spoken a word. The night they went out on their last date he was excited to be taking her out. After all she was one of the most gorgeous girls in their neighborhood and everyone would see them! He couldn’t stop gazing into her beautiful eyes. Thomas spent the entire date gazing at her. By the second hour she was ready to go and Thomas was pleading with her to stay…’I can’t believe that I was interested in going out with a square like you…if I wanted an admirer I would’ve taken my mirror!’ Stephanie stormed out the door and Thomas couldn’t believe that she left him there like that…After all he bought her candy, flowers, he drove and paid what more could she want?’ What Thomas didn’t know is that Stephanie wasn’t looking for any of that…so
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Jul 20
Since so many of us NEED help making it through the first date. I have listed the top 10 mistakes and top ten ‘go for it’s’ of dating! If you are someone who rarely have dates but think you don’t need this you may want to pay extra special attention: Top 10 Thing to Do: 1. Open the door for the lady 2. Pay for the meal 3. Tell her you had a good time 4. Tell tasteful jokes 5. Give her compliments 6. Ask before touching [May I have a kiss] 7. keep eye contact 8. Listen to her stories [no matter how boring they seem] 9. Tell her you had a great time [ no matter how awful it may have turned out] 10. Take her home at a decent hour Top 10 Things to ‘NOT’ Do on your First Date: 1. Try to put your arm around her at the movies 2. Interrupt her in a conversation 3. Stare at other woman! 4. Laugh at her stories [When she's pouring her heart out] 5. Not pay for the Meal 6. Run out on the bill 7. Suggest running out on the bill 8. Constantly stare at your watch 9. Avoid looking at her 10. Try to ask her to come to your house [ because you forgot something-how lame] Remember to keep her attention focused on you the entire date. Show her you are paying attention to her every step of the way. Give her lots of compliments. And most of all don’t force yourself on her…coming off too strong is a number one turn off.